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Say NO at Work

The workplace is similar to any other social environment where we encounter many situations. Some situations make us feel comfortable, while others make us feel uncomfortable. Uncomfortable situations make us stressed and hinder our overall productivity in the workplace. Therefore, it is essential to avoid them to protect our health and productivity in the workplace. Fortunately, a simple “NO,” well-said, is one of the best ways to avoid these situations that make us uncomfortable. 

Situations That Need a No


 

 The boss needs you to do more work. 

 

Here are examples of situations in the workplace that we need to learn to say “NO” to:

1. Your boss assigns you a task that does not fit your job description. This assignment will likely take much of your time as it hinders you from performing the duties outlined in your job description. Moreover, you will realize that you do not have the skills to complete the assignment efficiently. It may cause you stress. You should reject it politely

2. Your employee comes up with an idea that is not considered a priority in the organization. The idea does not fall within the plan and budget of the organization at the moment. You should reject the idea politely. 

3. Your co-worker asks you to do something that conflicts with your values. For example, a co-worker wants sick leave, yet she is not ill. She asks you to help her to lie about it. On the other hand, you value honesty and integrity. You should reject her idea politely. If you fail to do so, you will remain tormented by the knowledge that you let down your standards of integrity.

4. Your boss asks you to do more work, yet you must go home because the official working hours are over. You love sitting at the dinner table with your family and helping your kids do their homework. You need to say no to this offer politely.

5. Your boss decides things about your work that has the potential of gravely affecting your life. For example, out of the blue, you are transferred to another branch of your company in another state. You have to say no to this transfer. Saying no, in this case, offers you the opportunity to get the reasons for your transfer from your boss. Additionally, you may end up staying at your present workplace. 

Saying No

 

 listening to the other party when having a conversation

 

We have briefly discussed some situations that require us to say no in the workplace. Additionally, we need to learn how to correctly say no to our bosses, co-workers, employees, and clients so that they do not develop the feeling that we are impolite, disrespectful and not team players. 


 For you to correctly say no, you need to have good communication skills, as outlined below:

1. You need to listen to the proposition being made to you. For example, if your boss asks you to work extra hours, listen to him without interrupting him. The ability to listen shows that you have respect for your partner in communication at the time. Additionally, it makes you collect points from the other speaker that you can use for your reply.

2. Begin your rejection of the proposition with appreciation. In the above example, you can start by saying, “thank you for considering me for the extra work.” 

3. Give reasons for rejecting the proposition. For example, “however, I will not be able to do extra hours because I have to help my children with their homework.” 


Saying no is necessary. However, make it polite.

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